BIG PLANS

Did you ever have big plans for your life? Did those plans work out just as you thought they would? I think most people are like me in that some plans work out as I imagined and some are far from anything I had hoped. Yes, life is full of many surprises. Some unexpected events are total letdowns and others are heartbreakers. And when life seems to be all “rainbow and unicorns”, as my oldest daughter frequently refers to it, we tend to become prideful and sometimes greedy, spoiled Christians.

I awoke at 4:45 this morning thinking of you. You in foreign nations that have visited my website are on my mind. I am thankful and humbled that you chose to read what I have written. Each passing day I think, “I need to write about this, or about that.” In the course of one day, I have many topics to blog about and as you can see, I don’t. I deeply desire to encourage and help spread hope to others so I write what is on my heart. Even if it is before daybreak.

Since you are reading this blog, you know I am an American. Growing up as an American I was given some freedoms that no other country I know gets to enjoy. My father, uncles, cousins, nephews, and husband have served in our armed forces to protect those freedoms. Those freedoms were God-given and based on Christian principles. I have lived enough years to see and experience what happens to a nation that turns away from God. The American dream is turning into the American nightmare, to say it mildly! Greed, hatred, immorality, violence, chaos, confusion, detestable lifestyles toward God, and evils of all kinds are occurring with intensity each day. I could continue, but you get the idea if you see any news of what is happening in the United States.

And there it is…the United States. Through our turning from God, we are no longer United. Have you ever heard of the ancient military strategy to “divide and conquer?” I believe that strategy is one of our enemy Satan’s, favorite. If he can divide us in our belief in the ONE true God, then he can weaken us as a nation and we no longer stand. United we stand. Divided we fall.

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2 Chronicles 7:14 If My people who are called by my name, will humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land. NKJV. I have a heart-gripping drawing of the Statue of Liberty on her knees, hands lifted to heaven, tears streaming down her face, and “IF MY PEOPLE” is written on her foundation. This verse of scripture is written out beneath. Please take a moment to think about the word “foundation.” As you do, here are a few scriptures to look up and be strengthened by: 2 Timothy 2:19; 1 Corinthians 3:11; and Matthew 7:24-27…All other ground is sinking sand!

This brings me to BIG PLANS.

A poem evolved as I thought of the unimaginable deterioration of our America the Beautiful. The Perfect Plan was the message of hope and encouragement I needed to get my thoughts on the Sovereign God I serve. If I do not recognize that God’s plan is perfect, I will lose all hope, for not only the future of America but mine and my loved one’s futures. Although it doesn’t stop there! I would have no hope of a future for any of you also. If I don’t have something, I cannot share it.

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So, I thank God for His Grace and Mercy for Salvation for all who call on His name. And I thank Him for the opportunities He has given me to share these messages of hope and encouragement. I am just one of His many children living in a nation that so desperately needs to do as He told us in 2 Chronicles 7:14.

Through the saving Grace of Jesus Christ, Him, and His Word being my solid foundation, my Big Plans transform into His bigger, better, perfect plans for me, my loved ones, the nations, and this whole big world! By the way, He created the universe, so He has got that too! Psalms 19:1 The heavens declare the glory of God, and the sky above proclaims His handiwork. ESV

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As I stand on the solid foundation of Jesus Christ and His Word, I can trust that His perfect plan is better than anything I could ever devise. As I surrender my will to Him, I have all of the hope and encouragement I need to share with the nations. This fulfills His plan for my life and my heart’s desire for those of us in the United States of America, Singapore, Ireland, Canada, India, Philippines, Netherlands, Romania, China, Germany, United Kingdom, and Sweden, thus far. I know God is great at multiplying blessings, so I can count on Him to add to this list. You are a blessing!

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I want to thank you for spending time with me and I would love for you to connect with me on my Connect page. Countless times I have been encouraged by those who have commented.

If you want to know more about my life experiences that have helped build my faith, you can read about some of them in my new book, “Blue Skies, Butterflies, & Battlegrounds.” The Perfect Plan poem and narrative are in this book also. My first book “Inspire Me” tells how and why my writing began. You can find them on my Books page here on this website.

As I pray for your nation, I ask that you include the United States of America in your prayers. Let us pray that we will all stand united with Christ before the One God that made it all possible.

May God bless you and keep you wherever you are!

Until our next time together,

Reba

7 responses to “BIG PLANS”

  1. Rose McCullough Avatar
    Rose McCullough

    Hey old friend. You are inspiring me to make time to slow down and read your comments. I didn’t know you had such a riding talent, but praying that you are inspired every day so that you can inspire others.

    1. Reba Bailes Avatar

      Rose, it is so good to hear from you. I, like you, did not know I had any writing abilities until 2016. I tell how it came about in my Introduction in my first book “Inspire Me”. Very similar to becoming a Massage Therapist. God has plans for me that I never imagined. You too my friend. Thank you for your kind response. God bless you and your beautiful family.

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    Rose McCullough

    Writing talent😜🙏❤️

  3. David Bailes Avatar
    David Bailes

    just re-read your email version of Big Plans that came to my Social tab of Gmail. Just reading slowly, taking it all in, and trying to get a firmer grasp of where your mind is at that moment in time, makes me appreciate you all the more. You, my dear, are truly a blessing to others, and a major blessing to me. db

    1. Reba Bailes Avatar

      And you, my love, are a huge part of my journey in this life. I can’t imagine life without you and your loving support . Ditto on the blessings. 😁❤️

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    Hello Sis, catching up on your blogs. Really enjoy reading about things going on in your life. Some things I know of, some not.
    keep up the good work and keep inspiring others as you have and will. I am looking forward to more of your writings. Love you bunches! Your next to big sister, Necie

    1. Reba Bailes Avatar

      Thanks, Sis, I am glad you are enjoying my writing. I’ve got so much more I feel led to write about and am doing my best to not let too many distractions get in my way. I know the Lord helps me and that makes it possible. All to inspire others to know Him better and spread His Word. Love you too!

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My Father Told Me

At an early age, my parents began teaching us the rules of our house. Rules were abundant! Don’t run in the house, don’t put your feet on the furniture, no elbows on the table, don’t talk with food in your mouth, don’t cross the street without looking both ways, don’t talk back (and when it comes to those in authority, don’t even look like you want to talk back!), address your elders with Sir and Ma’am, and my all-time favorite… don’t come tattling on your brother, (the one just two years older than me). And certainly, don’t lie, cheat, or steal! You get the idea with these few examples. My parents would be smiling if they could read this now. 🙂

After some time, I graduated to the rules of society, community, and government, while still practicing the house rules my father laid down. He was certainly the authority figure.

It didn’t take me too long to figure out that most of the rules were to keep me safe and to teach me there are consequences when not following the rules. Although, I did wonder about some of them. Especially the one, “Don’t come tattling on your brother”. After all, who was going to keep them abreast of what he was up to? Surely, he needed me to take on that job. Isn’t that why God gave him a little sister?

Since I had some key things figured out, I got pretty good at following most of our house rules. Partially because I am a natural people pleaser and partially because I have four older siblings as an example of what happens when you don’t comply. There are consequences! Most of them were a huge deterrent to breaking the rules. Seriously, how could that be a bad thing?

Moving on to what My Heavenly Father tells me…

My parents quit taking us to church when we moved from Georgia to Arkansas. I was about seven years old. At nine years of age, I attended a revival with my next-door neighbor friend. I heard how Jesus would save me from my sins so I wouldn’t go to hell. You know, the consequences of breaking the rules! The only “God” rules I knew anything about were the 10 Commandments. I didn’t think I was guilty of breaking most of those rules. Man! Did I have a lot to learn?

Since this is a blog and not another book, I will try to give you the condensed version and say…praise God through Jesus I can shut the mouth of the deceiver!

The all-important logical question is, “If I could follow and never break any of God’s Commandments, why would Jesus come to save me from the penalty of being a lawbreaker? My Heavenly Father taught me that the commandments were given to show us that we could never be “good enough” to stand before Him sinless. Romans 3:23 says, “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” So, He sent His perfect sinless Son to pay the consequences for us through His sacrifice on the cross. Now, my part is to accept Jesus’s sacrifice for me and for me to surrender my life to Him.

Now I would like to introduce you to the instigator of the ideas I am expressing in this blog. His name is Greg Fritz. He was a guest speaker at our church last Sunday and has been our guest many times. I have also led our Ladies Bible Study Group in several of his studies. His ministry is on Youtube and I encourage you to look him up.

His message was based on why living for God is best for me. One point that he made that I’ve been working on to express in this blog, is that God’s boundaries are good. Very much like our “house rules”. His clear-cut logical message confirms the love of God and His purpose for rules, guidelines, and boundaries. Greg says, “The narrow road is plenty wide for me.” I love that!

Romans 8:28
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He touched on numerous topics that I have written poems and narratives about. For example, Enough, Gain, and The Perfect Plan in my book “Blue Skies, Butterflies, and Battlegrounds.” Also, My Will Be Done? Thank God for Hope in my first book “Inspire Me.”

I would love for you to read those and see if you agree that God’s will for our lives is always best. And on my Connect Page let me know if you also find others.

His will comes with rules, boundaries, and guidelines. For He knows how to not only keep us safe but how to give us the best life. Our lives are filled with strength, hope, fulfillment, protection, power, and purpose until He brings us to our eternal home with our Savior. The One who made it all possible. By all means pick up your Bible and read the Good News. Greg also says, “The Good News is so good that the bad news doesn’t matter.” I say a big amen to that!

Yes, I tell in my books and when I give my testimony, I did not want to be a massage therapist, a poet, or a writer. I thank God that I grasped the meaning of surrender because He certainly knows what the best life for me is.

My Father Told Me for my good and His glory! Romans 8:28 NLT says “And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to His purpose for them. Now I can share it with you.

I could not close without saying that I realize some of you did not have a father figure in your life. Or some had a harsh unloving father. I know our Heavenly Father can and will heal all of the hurt and suffering caused by this. It is not only His desire but His will to do that for you. It is your opportunity to live the best life He created you for, in spite of your circumstances. He fulfills every need we could ever have.

With love,

Reba

The Beginning of My Writing

Hello dear friends, here it is May, and I sit at my computer with so many thoughts that I want to share with you. Where do I start? How about at the beginning? Specifically, awareness of God’s incredible love for all of us, and the opportunities we are given to share that love with others.

As I look for opportunities to share what I have written in my books, I must look no further than the beginning of my writing. Poetry was not my preferred genre until I was given a special book by a very special friend. The book’s title was Somebody Loves You by Helen Steiner Rice.  Helen’s work “spoke” to me. The love of God just flowed from the pages. As I read, I hungered for more of those beautiful rhyming words that glorified God, revealed more of His character, and lead me to a deeper understanding of who I am in Him. The power of words is truly all that God says it is!

So, I started collecting every book I could find of Helen’s work.

Some of you know the story… My desire was to bless my youngest sister (the prodigal child in our family) with a poem for her birthday. One written specifically by Helen Steiner Rice.

I used everything I could think of to find the perfect poem to give my sister. I read that Helen had a sister also, so, I thought out of the countless poems she had written that she must have one that would “speak” to my sister. I spent hours scouring every book I had collected. After finding nothing that remotely fit the need, I moved on to the internet. We all know that you can find anything you need on the Internet. Just ask Google! Lol! Well, this time Google let me down. It served a good purpose though; more about that soon.

I continued my search but on other internet sites. I questioned different ones at various bookstores. Each time I came up empty-handed. I was beginning to think that Helen had never written a poem for her sister, or maybe if she did, she had not published it. So, I gave up! I even made the announcement to my husband that I gave up! His response was “You will just have to write one for her.” You need to know at that time we had been married 45 years and my husband certainly knew I was no poet! I laughed at his remark because I knew he was not serious.

So, now I move on to the “serving a good purpose” remark. Early the next morning, the words to a poem started coming into my thoughts. I got up and started quickly writing them down as the words were coming quickly. As I wrote, at once I was aware that this was my sister’s story starting at the beginning. And the realization that it rhymed made it clear that the Lord was giving me the answer to my desire for my sister. In less than an hour I had 90% of my first poem. It was lengthy and written while I was fixing breakfast for my husband and me. You know that multitasking thing some of us get caught up in?

Now this should explain the good purpose of my not finding Helen’s poem for her sister. Years later I found the one she had written for her sister, Gertrude. The Lord confirmed to me that He knows our hearts’ desires and He knows how to fill them with more than we could ask for. He gave me a custom-designed message to my sister “Expressions of His Endearing Love.” It is my first poem in my first book Inspire Me. The beginning of my writing.

So now, seven years later, with a total of eighty poems, and my second book published, I am writing to you. The question was, “Where do I start?” My answer is, “In the beginning of an awareness of God’s incredible love for all of us, and the opportunities we are given to share that love with others.”

I fully believe this is the purpose of our Lord giving me the opportunities I have been given as a poet, writer, and now, a blogger.

This is a quote from the introduction to my first book. “I truly hope that as you read these poems you will be uplifted and encouraged. Most importantly, though, my desire is that you will be inspired to know God and know Him more deeply.”

He started at the beginning of Genesis and continues to the end in Revelation. His love letters to us express this and so much more. Words are truly powerful!

I will end by quoting the last paragraph in the narrative for my last poem “About Christmas” in my newly released book, Blue Skies, Butterflies, & Battlegrounds…

“Thank you, Lord, for “turning my world around and the love that came on Christmas, I will wear as a crown.” And I will get to lay my crown at Your feet as a tribute to the One who created me, forgave me, saved me, gifted me, equipped me, and lived in me! As I celebrate the One that Christmas is all about throughout eternity! The One I live for and get to tell others about! Amen!”

Thank you for reading what comes from my heart. I hope you will be led to take a look at my Book Page if you haven’t already. I do eagerly look forward to your comments and would love for you to connect with me on my Connect Page. It would be wonderful to hear from you.

God’s blessings to you,

Reba

1st Public Book Signing Blessings!

Good cloudy and cold April day, my friends. Yes, Spring is bursting forth in such colorful displays, standing out with the bare trees as their backdrop. Even the clouds and stormy weather cannot stop God’s masterpiece on earth. Much more is the masterpiece He is creating in you and me through the storms of our lives.

This brings me to my next thought. When I published “Blue Skies, Butterflies, and Battlegrounds”, I did not know for sure the date it would be released. How grateful I am for the timing of it coming together right before Easter. New life all around us and the new life that was brought forth through our resurrected Savior! He is risen! Thank you, Lord.

And with a grateful heart, I want to take a moment to thank all of you that were able to attend my book signing at Barnes and Noble this past Sunday. I appreciate each of you that carved out time from your busy schedules to support my work. We had a wonderful turnout! So much so, the manager congratulated me and my God-given helpers on a very successful event. He was very complimentary and supportive as well.

The Lord orchestrated many surprises throughout the preparation of this event. One was a challenging surprise, but it served as an experience to teach me, and as a reminder that He had that covered too. One of my numerous positive surprises was getting to reconnect with a cousin that I had not seen in 60-plus years. Yes, you read that correctly! But being with her (Marcia) was as if we had a close connection all our lives. Her son, Julian, was with her and an equal joy. My books helped motivate their visit and they were the first at my book signing. It was such a blessing and honor to have them there and our time to visit.

Reba and cousin Marcia
Reba and 2nd cousin Julian

Throughout this event, I reconnected with some old friends and made some new ones. With each book sold, I continued to ask the Lord to touch my readers’ hearts through the words I had written. 

The icing on the cake was the attendance of my husband, both of our daughters with their spouses, our son, his wife, and my youngest grandson. All providing more love and support. It was a day to remember with the fondest of memories. Therefore, I would like to share with you some of the pictures taken at this blessed event.

I also want to let each of you know how much you are appreciated. More than you could know. And for those who were unable to attend this event, there will be more coming. When those are scheduled you will find them on my events page and in my blog posts. Hope to see you next time. Meanwhile, I certainly ask His blessings on you as well, as you read what He has given me to share in these books. 

Thank you so much for sharing this journey with me, I hope to hear from you via this post or on my connect page. May God Bless you on this upcoming Resurrection Sunday.

From my book to you

Why an Empty Grave?
“Behold with us the empty grave, you won’t see Jesus there.
Just look beside you, there within you; our risen Savior dwells everywhere!”
“Blue Skies, Butterflies, and Battlegrounds”, pages 222-223

Luke 24:1-7, 25-26

Have You Ever Needed A Friend?

“A friend is someone who loves you just the way you are, and if you are richly blessed you have them near and far”… from the beginning of my poem “Friends” in Blue Skies, Butterflies, and Battlegrounds.

I am so grateful for you, my friends, near and far, long time and new. God has known my need for friends through the process of publishing this newest book. He has provided just who, and when I needed them. From helping with details, listening to me, and purchasing my books. I am so grateful for my friends.

Shayla is one of the many friends God has placed in my life.
Shayla is one of the many friends God has placed in my life.

Today I am sharing with you, my friend, that my newest book Blue Skies, Butterflies,& Battlegrounds was added to goodreads. As you will see there is not much activity on my goodreads page, but I hope you can help me change that.

Goodreads is an ideal place to log your books, share your thoughts, and recommend the books you read to others. It is very simple to set up your own reading plans and challenges. You can also follow your favorite authors.

May I ask if you have already started reading Blue Skies, Butterflies, and Battlegrounds, or if you plan to, would you please take a moment to look at Goodreads and perhaps share your thoughts or recommend my books to others you know? And if not on goodreads, please feel free to comment here on my blog or send me an email from my contact page. I truly appreciate your time and valuable input.

It is my prayer that by me sharing my life’s stories through this book, you have found another friend in me. And through the scripture and messages, you have found your Friend Jesus. So, now I ask you, “when have you needed a friend?”

“I long to see you so that I may impart to you some spiritual gift to make you strong that is, that you and I may be mutually encouraged by each other’s faith.”
Romans 1:11-12 NIV

“No longer do I call you servants, for the servant does not know what the master is doing, but I have called you friends, for all that I have heard from my Father I have made known to you.”
John 15:15 ESV

Thank you so very much for your friendship and continued encouragement as I launch my new book.

Reba

Celebration Day and More!

So much to CELEBRATE! Today is the official release of my new book “Blue Skies, Butterflies, and Battlegrounds”. Please see my book page for details and where to pick up a copy. Future book signing events and more are in the works. Please see my events page for updates. And today I am sending you my second blog post. Please click below to sign up and receive my blog posts in your email. Thank you so very much!

And more…

I want to share with you the most recent event in this new chapter of my life. My first prerelease book launch signing was at my church in Pea Ridge, Arkansas. It was truly a mixture of emotions! It was a little nerve racking at first. When I got those butterflies in my tummy, my thought was, “this gives new meaning to transformation from the inside out.” Lol! But the butterflies settled, and it resulted in a fun and fulfilling day. My book got into the hands of many excited and appreciative friends.


My church family could not have been more supportive and encouraging. I was
surrounded with friends, old and new, to help pull this off successfully and
enjoyable. I must mention my husband, David. Afterall, we were united, as one,
fifty-one years ago and he continues to be right by my side.

We moved on to a more intimate celebration in our home with our grown
children and most of our local family. What a loving crew that I am so proud of!
This event gave me the opportunity to not only share my book, but express to
them they are an integral part of the reason I write. My desire is for them to know
my love for them but, most of all, the love of our Lord! That is the point! The love
of God through it all. The highs, lows and transformations in life.

And “Even More”…

As you read the narrative, addition, and following poem excerpt from “Blue Skies, Butterflies, and Battlegrounds”, you will see how and why this poem was selected for the title of my book.

Butterfly


On page 57; “You grip my hand , guide me through,  the very one I’m desperate for. While drenching me in Your cleansing power, You’re transforming me even more!”

On page 76; “I thank God that what He has given me doesn’t stop with the finalization of this book. For He has told me, The best is yet to come, because He is the gift that keeps on giving.”

Thank you for sharing a moment with me today. I hope you have been encouraged. I look forward to hearing from you.

Reba

Hello Friends

As I am writing my first blog, I invite you to grab a cup of coffee or tea and spend some time with me. I pray you will be blessed by our time together.

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Writing poetry and publishing books have taken me on a God-directed journey that I never dreamt of. In my new book “Blue Skies, Butterflies, & Battlegrounds” I share so much of my own personal story and poetry that I felt it was time to connect with you through my new website and blog.

For me launching a website and blog has not been as easy as writing a book. However I know where my help comes from and trust in His faithfulness to lead and provide all I need. I am reminded of this promise from God:

My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.
2 Corinthians 12:8

I hope you enjoy a moment or two clicking through the pages of my site. When you scroll down the page you can sign up to receive my next blog. Also, you are invited to share your thoughts and comments via my contact page. I eagerly wait to hear from you.

Reba