Yes, it has been a while I know. I had the misconception that I needed to iron out all of the issues with my website before continuing to write. Many times, I had thoughts or events that inspired me to write but I held back. I thought I might hit enough keys or watch enough tutorials to fix the glitches. Or better yet, get help!

So, here I am after another session with my friend Pati. She is who I fondly call my Hummingbird Friend. She is tiny, energetic, and all over the keyboard and mouse like a hummingbird zipping from flower to flower for nectar. Now here I am trying my hand at duplicating her steps to enjoy the nectar. Therefore, the title Pressing On.

Pressing on when you know it is what the Lord has for you to do is always right. I think of many times I’ve wanted to just give up when things got really hard. What if our Lord had done that when facing His crucifixion? This question should help us get things into their proper perspective, right? When we are faced with hardships, typically frustration, discouragement, doubt, fear, or confusion sets in.

A prime example of this in my life is a recent event, publishing my new book Blue Skies, Butterflies, and Battlegrounds. With the guidance and assistance of a newfound friend, I self-published my first book Inspire Me. Several others pitched in and made it easy.  

Therefore, my plan was to self-publish Blue Skies, Butterflies, and Battlegrounds. But God had other plans! I told how I came to publish with TBN/Trilogy in my acknowledgments. I made the comment that it was more like doing a cannonball out of the boat, rather than stepping out! Lol! But what I didn’t tell was how I was tested throughout that process. I must have thought that you hire a publisher and they do it all. I can tell you that I quickly found out that is wrong, and why they say publishing a book is like birthing a baby. Interestingly enough it took nine months from submitting my manuscript to my release date.  

God’s plans are always better than mine I can assure you.

Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope.

He had numerous lessons to teach me through this experience and I wouldn’t trade them for anything. Let me make it clear, if I could have learned those same lessons an easier way, I would have chosen the easy way.

But I thank God He knows me better than I know myself. He knows how to get the job done!

My number one lesson has been through the testing.

Question number one in the test… would I be obedient to complete what God had given me to do even when was it harder than I had imagined?

Question number two…would I let frustration and confusion cause me to say I can’t do this? Or let doubt overcome me and say I must have misunderstood God’s direction? I admit those thoughts did come. But the Holy Spirit reminded me that, David (my husband), and I were in full agreement this was the direction the Lord was taking me.

Another important lesson I learned is that if God brings you to it, He will bring you through it. You know we have many clever little sayings like this one, but God makes it real to us as we “press on” with Him.

As I reached the other side of my unexpectedly difficult tasks, I knew without a doubt who would get the glory! I hold my books and remember that without His gifting, His guidance, and His faithfulness to see it to completion, I would have never written a word of poetry or published any of the eighty that I have written. Nor could I share them with you.

Therefore, even with this website http://rebabailes.com, I press on because I know it is the right thing to do. May it encourage you to do the same. Always for His glory!

Philippians 3:13-14 NKJV Brethren, I do not count myself to have apprehended; but one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forward to those things which are ahead, v14 I press forward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.

Hello again, much sooner than usual.

Since my last blog about remembering, the Lord has had a number of reminders for me to “rightly” remember. I just couldn’t wait to share them with you.

By the way, I am still learning to use my website. If you have commented, I have not yet received them. Please don’t think I would ignore them. You can go to my connect page where you can email me. Let me know if you have commented. I am still hoping I can work this out. Thanks for your assistance and patience in doing that.

Ok, on to “Reminders”…

I was given this beautiful journal by a friend and helper at my church book signing. I decided I would journal about my dreams that I strongly felt were significant. If you have ever had the kind of dreams that leave you feeling like you just had a visit from the Lord, then you know what I’m talking about. And yes, I don’t want to ever stop dreaming those kinds of dreams for sure.

So, I went right to my computer and searched for my documents to place in my journal. I did find some of the dreams I had written about, but I repeatedly found more life experiences that I never wanted to forget. I titled them “Remembering”.

I knew at that moment we weren’t finished with this all-important topic. Also, if you don’t keep a journal, I am encouraging you to start. Or at least write down what God is speaking to you about, your experiences with Him, and the scripture He has given you in specific times of need. Or maybe the Holy Spirit has just reminded you of how He has worked and is working now in your life. You never know who, how, or when He might inspire you to share them. When I wrote these, I never imagined sharing them in a blog. Not to mention what I have authored in two published books. Throughout my narratives in “Blue Skies, Butterflies, and Battlegrounds” my mind was filled with many wonderful reminders of God; even in the toughest times. No, especially in the toughest times! Praise God! He teaches us what to “think” about, many ways to remind us, and gives us so much to share. You can find my books by clicking on Books here.

While I was reading what I had written about remembering, I ran across this article that I saw on the internet. It was several years ago, probably about 6 or 7. I am so thankful I kept it and I am including it exactly how I had documented it as follows:

“This is something I was reminded of and I wanted to share it with you all! Use your sword… Jesus’ Word, every day. Below is worth reading!

 “Remembering Keeps Your Faith Strong”

There are things about our past that we should forget, but there are also things that we should remember.

God often tells us to remember (Isa 46:9), because he knows that we are prone to forget. Here are three things to remember that will help you get through tough times:

1. Remember who you are.

In Christ Jesus you are all children of God through faith (Galatians 3:26). We are not abandoned orphans. No matter how sad you may be, remember that you are a child of God. You can trust your Father in heaven.

2. Remember who you belong to.

Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by name, you are mine (Isaiah 43:1). You belong to God. You can only ever suffer as much as he allows, and he will always be right there with you in the midst of the storm.

3. Remember where you are going.

Our citizenship is in heaven. And we eagerly await a Savior from there, the Lord Jesus Christ (Philippians 3:20).

Whatever you go through in this world is only a fleeting moment in the light of eternity. Remember that you belong to heaven and not to this world. Remember that you have a Savior and his name is Jesus.

This world is like an obstacle course that tries to make us forget. We are only safe when we remember Jesus.

What’s your memory like? Memory can be developed through training and discipline. What can you do in your life to strengthen your memory of the spiritual realities mentioned in this reading?”

By Dr. Eliezer Gonzalez

Now I hope you can see why I couldn’t wait to share this “Reminder to Remember”. Also, the word remember is found 240 times in the Old and New Testaments. I believe remembering Luke 26:26 and 1 Corinthians 11:24-25 is key to the blessed life Our Lord came to give us.

I also discovered the next document that I had written and saved:

REMEMBERING                                                                                                       May 12^th, 2021

Last Wednesday, May 6^th, 2021, I was sharing with David the many things God had supernaturally given me to give others. We agreed I need to write some of these things down. I said, “some” because there is so much, I’m not sure there are enough hours in the day to write them all!

I started by asking the Holy Spirit to direct my thoughts and help me remember, then I wrote about three special times of giving that came to my mind. The following Sunday, May 9^th, Mother’s Day, the whole sermon was based on us, as God’s children remembering all that God has done in the past. Remember His faithfulness to encourage and strengthen us in our faith. We even had Communion, “Do this in REMEMBRANCE OF ME”.

Another one of those WOW moments of recognizing how God orchestrates events in our lives that we so often miss.

Thank you, Lord, for putting things together for me that I could have never done myself. All to bless me as I bless others but most of all, may I BLESS YOU!

I found where I had written about several of those gifts that God had “supernaturally” given me to give others. Each memory of those gifts reminded me of the greatest “Gift” of all, Jesus Christ, God’s only begotten Son.

I will end with the last paragraph of Dr. Eliezer Gonzalez’s article I shared earlier…

“What’s your memory like? Memory can be developed through training and discipline. What can you do in your life to strengthen your memory of the spiritual realities mentioned in this reading?”

Thank you again for visiting my blog and spending time with me exploring, meditating, and sharing the Truths of God.

May God bless you and keep reminding you of His goodness and great love for you,

Reba 

Celebrating the release of my new book “Blue Skies, Butterflies, & Battlegrounds”.

“The Lord Bless you and keep you, the Lord make his face shine upon you, and be gracious to you; The Lord turn his face toward you and give you peace.”  Numbers 6:24-26

I am here today to share some of my struggles and victories. You know, the parts of my life I am willing to talk about. I believe we are all in this “process of life” together so we can relate to each other in many ways. And we can help each other by sharing what we are learning. I would love to hear from you so I can learn from you.

Ok, so I will lay it all out here. No pretenses, right?

Two main struggles I have been facing are:

1) Where my thoughts go (the things that I readily remember)

2) Where did my joy go?

I am understanding more of the connection between my thoughts and my joy. As I remember the scripture the Lord has already taught me, I pause and thank Him again for His incredible patience and long-suffering with me. And most of all, His eternal Word! It never changes. It is only meant to change me.

When I allow my thoughts to take me randomly and wrongly to memories of the past, I am guaranteed the enemy will remind me of my failures, shortcomings, guilt, and the myriad of hurtful things others have said and done. You know how the enemy of our souls loves to drag us down with those fiery darts in our minds.  In my book Blue Skies, Butterflies, & Battlegrounds my poem “Land of Regrets”(pg. 143) says “They have a way of creeping in, lurking around, My personal space where secrets are bound. Land of regrets taking hold of me, Where thoughts and truth no longer agree.”

The Lord, on the other hand, uses the past for our correction and His good purpose. The Word clearly tells us in Romans 8:1 NKJV “There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus, who do not walk according to the flesh, but according to the Spirit.” Jeremiah 29:11 “For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope.”

Or in my poem “ Living On “What If” Lane” (pgs. 110-111). It says a lot about “what if”, but here are some of the verses to consider. “What if we are here by happenstance, Hope for our future we have no chance. Or I’m not good enough so I get what I deserve, You see, it gets more treacherous around every curve! We can go very far, for it is a lengthy lane…Where tormented residents chronically complain.” (Oh, dear Lord, forgive me for my complaining!) My poem goes on to say…“You have to admit you can add to the miles, On the lane that’s bound by the devil’s wiles. But “what if” we heed His call to new direction? On Humble Court yield to correction. Jesus is the way, for we move by His grace, Taking captive our thoughts gives “what if” no space. Believe by faith, leaving “what if” behind, Renewed by His Word residing in peace of mind. We are loved, secure, let Hope remain, Our permanent residence on God’s Truth Lane.” Philippians 4:7 NKJV “And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.” There are many other scriptures that I have referenced for these poems. It becomes evident that God’s Word and our relationship with Him is how we shut the mouth of the deceiver, freeing us from regrets to live on God’s Truth Lane. No better place to be my friend, for you and me. We can do this by taking captive our thoughts and lining them up with what God has told us in His Living Word.

My Pastor said last Sunday during his sermon  “As I am preaching to you, it is as if I am sitting there with you and the words are coming back to me. Preaching to myself.” Or words to that effect. Now I sit here preaching, reminding, and correcting myself by sharing with you.

So, through the Holy Spirit’s constant reminders of the truth coupled with my obedience to read and meditate on it, I don’t have to struggle with topic #1. I have the power to take those thoughts captive. After all, the Lord has told us what we are to think about. Philippians 4:8 instructs believers to think on those things that are true, honorable, just, pure, lovely, commendable, and worthy of praise. If there is anything of excellence and worthy of praise, we are to think on these things. Colossians 3:2 ESV “Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth.” God has done His part, now I do mine.

Another source of help in directing my thoughts is in a book titled “Why the Butterfly?” by Shari Abbott. On the back cover Shari quotes an unknown author, “If nothing ever changed, there’d be no butterflies.” If you know me, and my writings, you know that the Lord has revealed some life-changing truths through the analogy of a butterfly’s transformation. But Shari also says, “Don’t let the title fool you. This book isn’t about butterflies …it’s about Jesus—and why rightly remembering is important.” To sum it up we are to remember who God is, what He has done for us, what He commands of us, and who we are in Him. When we remember these truths by rightly remembering, we rejoice… the joy that lives inside of us is restored.

This brings us to topic #2. Where did my joy go?

Another poem I am reminded of is one I wrote that is in my first book Inspire Me. The title is “ Candle of Joy”(pgs. 56-57). Here are a few lines from it. “Now let us define Heaven’s true Joy, through Christ it is our gain   HE died for it, secured it for us, unspeakable Joy REMAIN!   Praying to Him, spending time in His Word, brings us in His Holy Presence,   We listen to Him, follow His truths, Joy is our Lord’s very essence. Trusting in Him, working all things for good, no matter what the circumstances   It’s a promise of God, not what others say, turns our mourning into dancing.   Joy overflows, with confident Hope; it’s truly a gift from above. No matter what life brings us, it transforms us into vessels of LOVE.”

So, yes, it is about the butterfly and Shari acknowledges this in the last chapter of her book. But the Joy through our transformation comes from rightly remembering these most important truths. We can see where our joy went when we take a closer look at what we remember and where we allow those memories/thoughts to go.

I believe I am a good example of the analogy of a woman’s brain being like a plate of spaghetti. Everything is connected. Lol! As I am writing, I noticed an article on my desk titled “Joy Stealers”. I had a cluttered desk and chose to declutter before writing. This paper was the only one left unfiled. Obviously, I am to mention key things that steal our joy. Guilt, fear, anger, discontent, despair, and suffering are the topics that the author Paul Thigpen wrote about. He takes us deeper into God’s Word so that we no longer allow our joy to be stolen.

It is empowering to me and I hope it has been for you too. If you feel led, please leave a COMMENT in the box or on my Connect page. Also, I would appreciate hearing if any of my poems or narratives have helped encourage you in your “process of life”.

Remember, I am learning myself, as I share with you, that our joy is by rightly remembering. That resolves two areas with which I was struggling. Thank you, Lord, and thank you, my friend, for spending this time with me.

I will end with a picture that is a constant reminder of what this blog is about. The framed writing about remembering was a Christmas gift from my eldest grandson and his fiancé. I added the cross in the top left corner. On the cross is written, “Paid In Full”. The painting above is Via Dolorosa (The Road to Calvary). My husband bought this painting during his tour of the Holy Land in 1978. I just love how these three items bring together Joy in Remembering.

Sincerely,

Reba

Did you ever have big plans for your life? Did those plans work out just as you thought they would? I think most people are like me in that some plans work out as I imagined and some are far from anything I had hoped. Yes, life is full of many surprises. Some unexpected events are total letdowns and others are heartbreakers. And when life seems to be all “rainbow and unicorns”, as my oldest daughter frequently refers to it, we tend to become prideful and sometimes greedy, spoiled Christians.

I awoke at 4:45 this morning thinking of you. You in foreign nations that have visited my website are on my mind. I am thankful and humbled that you chose to read what I have written. Each passing day I think, “I need to write about this, or about that.” In the course of one day, I have many topics to blog about and as you can see, I don’t. I deeply desire to encourage and help spread hope to others so I write what is on my heart. Even if it is before daybreak.

Since you are reading this blog, you know I am an American. Growing up as an American I was given some freedoms that no other country I know gets to enjoy. My father, uncles, cousins, nephews, and husband have served in our armed forces to protect those freedoms. Those freedoms were God-given and based on Christian principles. I have lived enough years to see and experience what happens to a nation that turns away from God. The American dream is turning into the American nightmare, to say it mildly! Greed, hatred, immorality, violence, chaos, confusion, detestable lifestyles toward God, and evils of all kinds are occurring with intensity each day. I could continue, but you get the idea if you see any news of what is happening in the United States.

And there it is…the United States. Through our turning from God, we are no longer United. Have you ever heard of the ancient military strategy to “divide and conquer?” I believe that strategy is one of our enemy Satan’s, favorite. If he can divide us in our belief in the ONE true God, then he can weaken us as a nation and we no longer stand. United we stand. Divided we fall.

2 Chronicles 7:14 If My people who are called by my name, will humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land. NKJV. I have a heart-gripping drawing of the Statue of Liberty on her knees, hands lifted to heaven, tears streaming down her face, and “IF MY PEOPLE” is written on her foundation. This verse of scripture is written out beneath. Please take a moment to think about the word “foundation.” As you do, here are a few scriptures to look up and be strengthened by: 2 Timothy 2:19; 1 Corinthians 3:11; and Matthew 7:24-27…All other ground is sinking sand!

This brings me to BIG PLANS.

A poem evolved as I thought of the unimaginable deterioration of our America the Beautiful. The Perfect Plan was the message of hope and encouragement I needed to get my thoughts on the Sovereign God I serve. If I do not recognize that God’s plan is perfect, I will lose all hope, for not only the future of America but mine and my loved one’s futures. Although it doesn’t stop there! I would have no hope of a future for any of you also. If I don’t have something, I cannot share it.

So, I thank God for His Grace and Mercy for Salvation for all who call on His name. And I thank Him for the opportunities He has given me to share these messages of hope and encouragement. I am just one of His many children living in a nation that so desperately needs to do as He told us in 2 Chronicles 7:14.

Through the saving Grace of Jesus Christ, Him, and His Word being my solid foundation, my Big Plans transform into His bigger, better, perfect plans for me, my loved ones, the nations, and this whole big world! By the way, He created the universe, so He has got that too! Psalms 19:1 The heavens declare the glory of God, and the sky above proclaims His handiwork. ESV

As I stand on the solid foundation of Jesus Christ and His Word, I can trust that His perfect plan is better than anything I could ever devise. As I surrender my will to Him, I have all of the hope and encouragement I need to share with the nations. This fulfills His plan for my life and my heart’s desire for those of us in the United States of America, Singapore, Ireland, Canada, India, Philippines, Netherlands, Romania, China, Germany, United Kingdom, and Sweden, thus far. I know God is great at multiplying blessings, so I can count on Him to add to this list. You are a blessing!

I want to thank you for spending time with me and I would love for you to connect with me on my Connect page. Countless times I have been encouraged by those who have commented.

If you want to know more about my life experiences that have helped build my faith, you can read about some of them in my new book, “Blue Skies, Butterflies, & Battlegrounds.” The Perfect Plan poem and narrative are in this book also. My first book “Inspire Me” tells how and why my writing began. You can find them on my Books page here on this website.

As I pray for your nation, I ask that you include the United States of America in your prayers. Let us pray that we will all stand united with Christ before the One God that made it all possible.

May God bless you and keep you wherever you are!

Until our next time together,

Reba

At an early age, my parents began teaching us the rules of our house. Rules were abundant! Don’t run in the house, don’t put your feet on the furniture, no elbows on the table, don’t talk with food in your mouth, don’t cross the street without looking both ways, don’t talk back (and when it comes to those in authority, don’t even look like you want to talk back!), address your elders with Sir and Ma’am, and my all-time favorite… don’t come tattling on your brother, (the one just two years older than me). And certainly, don’t lie, cheat, or steal! You get the idea with these few examples. My parents would be smiling if they could read this now. 🙂

After some time, I graduated to the rules of society, community, and government, while still practicing the house rules my father laid down. He was certainly the authority figure.

It didn’t take me too long to figure out that most of the rules were to keep me safe and to teach me there are consequences when not following the rules. Although, I did wonder about some of them. Especially the one, “Don’t come tattling on your brother”. After all, who was going to keep them abreast of what he was up to? Surely, he needed me to take on that job. Isn’t that why God gave him a little sister?

Since I had some key things figured out, I got pretty good at following most of our house rules. Partially because I am a natural people pleaser and partially because I have four older siblings as an example of what happens when you don’t comply. There are consequences! Most of them were a huge deterrent to breaking the rules. Seriously, how could that be a bad thing?

Moving on to what My Heavenly Father tells me…

My parents quit taking us to church when we moved from Georgia to Arkansas. I was about seven years old. At nine years of age, I attended a revival with my next-door neighbor friend. I heard how Jesus would save me from my sins so I wouldn’t go to hell. You know, the consequences of breaking the rules! The only “God” rules I knew anything about were the 10 Commandments. I didn’t think I was guilty of breaking most of those rules. Man! Did I have a lot to learn?

Since this is a blog and not another book, I will try to give you the condensed version and say…praise God through Jesus I can shut the mouth of the deceiver!

The all-important logical question is, “If I could follow and never break any of God’s Commandments, why would Jesus come to save me from the penalty of being a lawbreaker? My Heavenly Father taught me that the commandments were given to show us that we could never be “good enough” to stand before Him sinless. Romans 3:23 says, “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” So, He sent His perfect sinless Son to pay the consequences for us through His sacrifice on the cross. Now, my part is to accept Jesus’s sacrifice for me and for me to surrender my life to Him.

Now I would like to introduce you to the instigator of the ideas I am expressing in this blog. His name is Greg Fritz. He was a guest speaker at our church last Sunday and has been our guest many times. I have also led our Ladies Bible Study Group in several of his studies. His ministry is on Youtube and I encourage you to look him up.

His message was based on why living for God is best for me. One point that he made that I’ve been working on to express in this blog, is that God’s boundaries are good. Very much like our “house rules”. His clear-cut logical message confirms the love of God and His purpose for rules, guidelines, and boundaries. Greg says, “The narrow road is plenty wide for me.” I love that!

He touched on numerous topics that I have written poems and narratives about. For example, Enough, Gain, and The Perfect Plan in my book “Blue Skies, Butterflies, and Battlegrounds.” Also, My Will Be Done? Thank God for Hope in my first book “Inspire Me.”

I would love for you to read those and see if you agree that God’s will for our lives is always best. And on my Connect Page let me know if you also find others.

His will comes with rules, boundaries, and guidelines. For He knows how to not only keep us safe but how to give us the best life. Our lives are filled with strength, hope, fulfillment, protection, power, and purpose until He brings us to our eternal home with our Savior. The One who made it all possible. By all means pick up your Bible and read the Good News. Greg also says, “The Good News is so good that the bad news doesn’t matter.” I say a big amen to that!

Yes, I tell in my books and when I give my testimony, I did not want to be a massage therapist, a poet, or a writer. I thank God that I grasped the meaning of surrender because He certainly knows what the best life for me is.

My Father Told Me for my good and His glory! Romans 8:28 NLT says “And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to His purpose for them. Now I can share it with you.

I could not close without saying that I realize some of you did not have a father figure in your life. Or some had a harsh unloving father. I know our Heavenly Father can and will heal all of the hurt and suffering caused by this. It is not only His desire but His will to do that for you. It is your opportunity to live the best life He created you for, in spite of your circumstances. He fulfills every need we could ever have.

With love,

Reba